Faith, Identity, and Resilience: A Descriptive Phenomenological Study of Coming-Out Experiences among Muslim LGBT Individuals in North Cotabato, Philippines
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This qualitative research endeavor explored the coming out experiences of Muslim LGBT individuals in North Cotabato, Philippines, focusing on their psychological (mind) and spiritual (spirit) struggles. Using a descriptive phenomenological design, data were gathered from 20 purposively selected participants through in-depth interviews and focus group discussions. Results revealed five major themes of struggle: internal conflict and guilt, fear of judgment and rejection, family pressure and community discrimination, selective disclosure, and religious and cultural conflict. Despite these adversities, participants coped with them through family and peer support, religious faith, resilience and self-acceptance, and personal growth and advocacy. Life lessons shared by participants emphasized self-acceptance, family’s unconditional love, perseverance, and the importance of demonstrating worth through personal achievements. This research offers additional insight into the coming out experiences of Muslim LGBT individuals within a specific cultural and religious context. Findings aim to inform mental health professionals, educators, policymakers, and communities to promote inclusivity, mental well-being, and understanding across cultural and religious lines.
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